Daily Weekly Monthly: Developing a Rhythm of Herbal Practice

One of the reasons that I've written so much about the ways that we measure and observe time, from seasonal to astrological practices, is that there is so much to learn about ourselves, our world, and our interconnectedness through how we experience time and space. Within herbal practice, and especially earth-centered herbal practice which seeks to work in partnership with the land, sea, and sky as opposed to the hyper-commodification of plants as abstract cure-alls, beyond trying to connect people with specific plants there is a lot of attention is given to how one is experiencing time. It's not unusual to be asked questions about the length of time you've felt unwell, how much time you spend sleeping, time you spend working, times when you feel anxious, times when you feel well, and so on when in an herbal consultation. Many herbalists want to know not just about the quality of the symptoms and discomforts that have brought you into their consultation room, but the quality of time as you experience it.

Asking about time helps us to make recommendations of care beyond herbal remedies, including spending more time resting, less time scrolling on screens, seeking quality time with a mental health practitioner, and more. In my experience, most folks just want to decrease the amount of time they are suffering and increase the amount of time they feel well. So, we talk about time and the practices that a client might incorporate into their life that helps them feel more empowered by time and less overrun by it. 

One of the ways that I work with clients and students in developing a conscious connection with time in their herbal practice is considering when and how to use different types of herbal remedies. Much of this is just part of the foundational training of an herbalist: some herbs are more appropriate to take a very specific times for very specific time periods (such as immunostimulants and antiviral plants at higher dosages for shorter periods of time for acute infection) while other plants, like culinary herbs and spices, can be used more often. Additionally, considering time in your herbal practice is one of the ways that we begin to understand and apply preventative care in our lives which can go a long way in lessening and preventing illness and suffering while increasing a sense of wellbeing.

How do you think about time in your healing practice? In U.S. English, a common phrases used to talk about time include "time well spent" or "spending time.” While "spending time" is not a good or bad phrase, it can be interesting to experiment with other ways of talking about time. Instead of time well spent, which can feel like we are always meant to be productive with our time and time is simply another form of currency, I invite you to think about experiencing time as well worn, time well experienced, time shared, and time well loved. How do those phrases feel to you in comparison to thinking about time in the context of "spending" it? What are ways of envisioning and talking about time that feel empowering or oppressive? It can be an interesting practice to come up with different ways of considering time and creating conversations about time not only in the consult room but in our personal practices as well.

In addition to thinking about time in your life, there is the practical ways that we incorporate different herbs at different times. Below you'll find some of my simple recommendations for how you might work with herbs on a daily, weekly, and monthly basis. These are simple guidelines that focus on general health and preventative care and look a lot different to an herbal routine for acute conditions. These guidelines are only one approach to herbal practice and are meant to help you think about the rhythm of your herbal practice rather than be prescriptive rules to follow. As always, work with your health care practitioners to determine the most supportive course for your unique health needs.

Tarot deck shown is the Moon Baby Tarot (2nd Edition) by Brant Palazzo

Daily

For daily herbalism, I tend to focus on two categories of herbs: nutritives and nervines. The types of nutritive and nervine herbs that I like to use in daily practice are ones that are not only considered generally safe, but are best used over a long period of time. Nutritives are herbs which have a strong nourishing quality, often containing high levels of vitamins and minerals. Examples of nutritive herbs are Nettles (Urtica dioica), Milky Oat (Avena sativa), Alfalfa (Medicago farfara), Turmeric (Curcuma longa), and Chickweed (Stellaria media). Many kitchen herbs (i.e. spices and herbs used for flavoring meals) are nutritive in value, too, and can be enjoyed on a daily basis. 

Nervines have a beneficial effect on the nervous system. While most nervines are relaxing, some are more sedating, others are stimulating, and some are considered balancing (i.e. nervous system tonics). I tend to recommend relaxing nervines and nervous system tonics though plenty of folks already include stimulating tonics (i.e. Coffee arabica and Camellia sinensis) in their daily routine. Examples of relaxing nervines and tonics include Milky Oat (Avena sativa), Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis), Skullcap (Scutellaria lateriflora), Peppermint (Mentha piperita), Chamomile (Matricaria recutita), Lavender (Lavandula spp.), and Passionflower (Passiflora incarnata).

For many of my clients, one or two of these types of herbs will be included in my recommendations for them as having a daily herbal practice that is nourishing and nutritive is an important part of the healing process. Many of these herbs are also ones that students of traditional and modern western herbalism are introduced to early in their studies because they are such a foundational part of our practice.

I also pay attention to the ways I can incorporate seasonal herbs into my own and my clients’ daily practices. Chickweed, for example, shows up in the garden every spring and that's when I use it fresh in my daily tea as it's not a plant that stores well once dried (though it makes a lovely herbal vinegar if you’re looking to extend its healing qualities). Working with seasonal herbs is an invitation to observe and connect more deeply with the land and our plant allies.

Finally, one of ways that I feel-think about a daily herbal practice is that these remedies are the breath of my practice - a steady breath that allows me to meet myself, my community, and whatever the day may bring.

Cards shown are from the Dirt Gems Oracle by Anne Louise Burdett & Chelsea Granger

Weekly

With our daily practice established, what might a once-a-week herbal rhythm look like? Topical treatments like herbal masks and oils, steams, shower rinses, and baths are some of my favorite once or twice a week practices. Here is where we work with herbs a little more slowly than with teas or tinctures, and can experience more immersive sensations in our herbal practice.

I love herbal baths of all varieties and practicing self-massage with herbal oils is a simple and restorative way to not only support our nervous system, but nourish our largest organ - our skin. You can make these weekly rituals as simple or complex as you like (Make an altar! Light those candles! Write that time-sensitive email while your face is covered in Moon-blessed herbal powder and clay!), but think of the ways you can make space to slow down and be in your practice amidst the busyness of daily life. Some of my favorite herbs for bath and body are Rose (Rosa spp.), Lavender (Lavandula spp.), and Calendula (Calendula officinalis).

Once or twice a week can also be a beautiful time to bless your space with herbal incense or washes. One of my favorite herbs for burning is my local Mugwort (Artemisia spp.) variety.

For me, a weekly herbal practice motion and movement to the breath of daily practice. What am I moving into? What am I moving away from? What is moving within and around me?

Deck shown is the Smith-Waite Centennial Tarot Deck in a Tin

Monthly

For monthly practices I focus on spiritual rituals and hormonal support. Herbs used in a monthly practice might be, but are not always, ones that have a more intense effect on our bodies and would not be appropriate for everyday use. If you are feeling like your herbal studies or practice is very much in your head space and you want to draw your practice down into your body, connecting with the plants on a less academic and more somatic level, I recommend creating a monthly practice as a path of connection.

As someone who loves a lunar practice, I try to make space each month for simple herbal rituals tied to certain lunar phases or returns. This might be a lunar bath, ritual, or gentle cleansing rite, but it is a time to step between the worlds and connect with the spirits of land, the deep needs of the dreaming body, ancestral lineages, and my own magickal practice. Sabbats and other special celebrations fall under this monthly category for me, too. What your monthly practice looks like will be entirely up to you, your spiritual needs, your cultural traditions, and so on, and if you don't have a practice like this already I hope you have fun discovering your very own version. 

In addition to a monthly spiritual practice, hormonal support might also be something you consider, especially if you menstruate or experience a monthly hormonal cycle. What these hormone regulating herbs look like will be different for each person, but in general, I love working with Red Clover (Trifolium pratense) and Crampbark (Viburnum opulus). 

The monthly herbal practice is where we allow ourselves to be held by energies beyond our own effort, brought there by the movement and breath of our weekly and daily practice.

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This post is part of a series exploring some of the broad themes of herbal practice in the consultation room that started with Night Allies: Herbs for Sleeping and Dreaming. If you're looking for more seasonal guides to help you develop the rhythm of your herbal practice you can find them over here and you can also check out my series on the seasons of the zodiac, too, another interesting and mythic way of observing time.

I hope you're feeling inspired to explore what your herbal practice looks like through days, weeks, and months, and that you find the unique rhythm of your own healing path.

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Cards Shown

Moon Baby Tarot (2nd Edition) by Brant Palazzo
Dirt Gems Oracle by Anne Louise Burdett & Chelsea Granger
Smith-Waite Centennial Tarot Deck in a Tin

Expanding the Dream: Tarot and Tea for Aquarius Season

Welcome to Aquarius Season and my latest post on tarot practices and herbal allies for the twelve seasons of the zodiac (you can learn more about the whole series over here).

The structures put in place and/or reinforced by the energy of Capricorn season is tested through the innovative drive of Aquarius season. How well can our foundations hold-up in unexpected situations, Aquarius asks us, and if they don't pass the test what should they be replaced with? Aquarian energy is the fuel of transformative movements, social change, and intellectual clarity of complex problems and their solutions. Aquarian energy looks at the work of Capricorn and says, "I like what you've done here. But have you thought about this?" and then launches into an unproven but captivating new theory. The Water Bearer is constantly pouring out new ideas, testing theories, and thinking between the layers of the box.

Aquarius is a fixed air sign meaning that it holds the energy of radical self-expression, creativity, and an intensity of purpose (Taurus, Leo, and Scorpio are also fixed signs as well). The far-visioning energy of Capricorn season passes the baton to Aquarius season where we figure out how we get to the future that Capricorn has laid the foundation for. The gifts of Aquarius season are many, not least of which is the energy of curiosity and enthusiasm that the season can stir up. Aquarius season helps us to connect with our analytical mind, the powers of our collective intellect, and the ability to create connections where they have not been made or seen before. Aquarian energy helps us have the daring to dream bigger than we ever have before.

Here's the secret about Aquarian energy (and often those with a lot of Aquarius energy in their birth chart) - it can become quite inflexible, even conservative, beneath the veneer of innovative radicalism. This can happen if too much Aquarian energy leads to an inability to deviate from the "truth" that they have worked so hard to innovate on and/or discover. In some ways, such inflexibility makes sense within the context of innovating, which can be a process of extreme vulnerability and leaving yourself open to criticism from a majority of folks who at best just don't get what you're doing or at worst find innovation (and therefore, Aquarian energy) dangerous. A necessary emotional detachment occurs, an overdeveloped self-belief settles in, and what was once innovative becomes defensive and unyielding. Here, we are led to the other danger of too much Aquarian energy - it can draw out our feelings of being misunderstood to a point of (self) isolation. As we engage with the energy of the water-bearer it can be all too easy to believe that in our clever innovation we're not just pouring the water, but we are its source. But with a healthy wariness of hubris, Aquarius season can bring the much needed energy shift to make necessary and radical change in our lives and cultures. 

Expanding the Dream
Aquarius Season Tarot Spread

While the energy of Aquarius can sound very exciting (Innovation! Change! New ideas!) actually cultivating Aquarian energy in our lives can feel a bit daunting - especially if you've experienced burnout lately or are in a creative slump. Fortunately, Aquarius energy can help to stir up the initial energy needed for innovative thinking by helping to dispel stagnant energy. The key to understanding Aquarian energy is to think of it like a surge of electricity - we want to put the appropriate wiring in place to help direct it in helpful ways and not burn down the house. When respected and made space for, Aquarian energy can help light off (if briefly and erratically) some of the most inscrutable problems with sparks of inspired solutions.

Aquarius asks us, "What's beyond the edges of your dream?"

One of the gifts of Aquarius is to see our own limitations and then dream beyond them. The following tarot spread helps you to understand yourself as a dreamer better while bringing in the fresh perspective needed to expand upon whatever dream you're dreaming these days. In the spirit of Aquarius, try casting or choosing your cards in a new or different way (i.e. fanning them out and choosing them instead of riffle shuffling or throwing them on the floor and yelling at them until a card or two jumps out) to bring fresh energy into your spread.

Card 1. The Dreamer

This card is about you and who you are as the carrier of your dreams.

Card 2. The Dream

This card helps you to understand the current dream you have better, perhaps seeing it from a new perspective.

Card 3. The Dreamer Awakes

This card helps you understand a way of thinking or being that'll help make your dream more real.

Card 4. That Which is Dreaming You

A bit of an experiment, this card speaks to the energies/ancestors/land spirits/cosmic forces that are dreaming of you and see you as essential to their dream being realized.

Card 5. A Message for Aquarius Season

A general message, signs to pay attention to, and perhaps next steps to take as we move into Aquarius season. This card can highlight energy which you might bring more into your life during Aquarius season so that you are better able to connect with the energetic flow of the next month.

Bonus Card: That Which Guards the Electrical Currents of the Body

If you feel connected with the philosophy of astroherbology you can pull an additional card to help you understand the current energies of your body's electrical currents, including physical experiences and energetic ones, what tension or wisdom you might be keeping there. I encourage you to take a somatic approach with this card - when you pull it and see the energy, follow the feelings and sensations that it evokes from your body to understand its meaning. 

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A Tea for Aquarius Season

How do we nourish the energy of Aquarius? Traditionally, Aquarius guards the lower legs and ankles, the electrical impulses of the body, as well as the circulatory system especially as related to elimination (click here for a full list of traditional correspondences for Aquarius). Aquarius energy is often stimulating to our intellectual body, stirring up ideas and dreams within us, but as a fixed air sign the energy can be prone to excess tension. So we need herbs to support our brain function while making sure our nervous system doesn't get overworked from all of the stirred up Aquarian energy. Peppermint (Mentha piperita) is one of my favorite Aquarian herbs, embodying the amphoteric ways that Aquarian energy moves, relaxing or stimulating us as is needed. Milky Oat (Avena sativa) and Rose (Rosa spp.) nourish the nervous system and reduces stress allowing energy (and ideas) to flow freely while Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis) helps keep us connected to the beneficial energy of the collective and the legacy of innovation we can draw upon.

• 4 parts Peppermint (Mentha piperita)

• 4 parts Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis)

• 2 parta Milky Oat (Avena sativa)

• 1/4 part Rose (Rosa spp.)

I also recommend adding in a few drops of Vervain (Verbena spp.) Flower Essence to help guard against some of the more challenging aspects of Aquarian energy. 

These proportions are only suggested guidelines, so feel free to play around with them to your liking. As you make your tea, slow down, breathe deep, and infuse the blend with your intentions for the season (or whenever you’re drinking this tea to connect with the energy of Aquarius). If you’re looking for more breathwork practices to help you connect with the energy of the season, come this way.

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Seasonal Reflections

What does the land feel like, look like, smell like this season?

What is coming to the surface from within me?

What is receding within me?

What am I feeling grateful for?

What am I grieving for or feeling challenged by?

What am I feeling inspired and where is it calling me to this season?

What am I calling to me?

What am I called to give?

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Want to learn more about the magick and astroherbalism of Aquarius? I’ve written a full profile on the sign for you to enjoy. You can also check out the rest of my seasons of astrology series. If you want to dive deeper into the world of tarot, plant allies, and astrology, come this way.

California Poppy (Eschscholzia california) is another plant ally of Aquarius that I really love, especially when things feel too overstimulating. Elecampane (Inula helenium) is another great Aquarius plant ally and can help us return to our bodies after a time of questioning and seeking.

May your Aquarius season bring you insight, connection, and a sense of wonder about what was, is, and might be.

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Steadying Our Vision: Tarot and Tea for Capricorn Season

Welcome to Capricorn Season and my latest post on tarot practices and herbal allies for the twelve seasons of the zodiac (you can learn more here).

Sagittarius season may have just ended, mud still on the explorer's boots, and Capricorn is already asking, "Yes, but what did you do out there? What was the point of all your traveling?" While for some these types of questions may destroy the vibe of the adventurer, for Capricorn these types of assessments and reflections lead to the building of legacy and knowledge that can be transmuted into wisdom. If Sagittarius asks, "What is out there?" it's Capricorn asking the all important "What'll we do when we find what's out there? Who might we become?" Capricorn energy is the reason we have dry kindling to start a fire when out camping and that the broken window gets repaired before the cold winds of winter blow in. Marking the Solstice (Summer Solstice in the southern hemisphere and the Winter Solstice in the northern hemisphere), Capricorn helps us to understand where we most often shine our light and how to shine our light with precision.

Capricorn is a cardinal earth sign which means that it embodies the energy of creating the next chapter of a very old book (or a completely revolutionary textbook), a steady eye on the future, and the energy to stick around to see a project through (Aries, Cancer, and Libra are also cardinal signs). Following the breath of the year, as Sagittarius breathes out, so Capricorn breathes in, settling in place and taking note of what needs to be done for the long run. The ability to envision far into the future and experience gratification in the long-run is a gift and lesson of Capricorn. The season of Capricorn helps us to take stock of how far we've come and where we must go next - but before we make any moves, Capricorn energy helps us to plan and prepare.

Many of us are grappling with huge and complex choices that we need to make in order to secure a future on our beloved island planet. Capricorn, in its practicality and straightforwardness, is less susceptible to hype, speculation, and fear (even as it is driven by understanding the realness of crisis), and helps us to simply do what needs doing right now,  wherever we're at. As we learn about ourselves in Capricorn season and in our own birth charts, we learn where it is that we keep our gumption and our fearlessness in scaling mountains and exploring sea depths that the mighty goatfish is well suited for. The struggles of Capricorn are becoming so forward-looking and goal-oriented that the pleasures and experiences of today are missed. The overextension of Capricorn energy in our lives can lead to overwork and defining our worth through our work. Too much dependence on Capricorn energy can measure the worth of everything by its end goal and, in turn, we lose out on the journey. If we learn to guard against these pitfalls and to honor the time that Capricorn energy needs in solitude and focus, we can create structures and foundations that'll guide and support generations (of people, plants, creatures) to come.

Steadying Our Vision
Capricorn Season Tarot Spread

Sitting down to read Capricorn energy is both a serious matter and a laughing matter. While the symbol of the goatfish represents Capricorn's ability to score the heights and depths with their persistence and planning, it's also a reminder that so much is out of our control and that there is a certain amount of strangeness and mystery involved. To do the things which have not been done requires some idiosyncratic approaches - hence the mighty goatfish. Ultimately, Capricorn energy in our lives is helping us to discover what it is that we uniquely require to thrive.

Capricorn asks, "What structure do you need in order to thrive?"

Being able to thrive as individuals means thriving in our communities, so there is already a strain and support (the needs of the goat versus the needs of the fish, for example) that is present when exploring Capricorn energy. Capricorn is (often secretly) a very optimistic sign and type of energy - they believe whatever needs to be done can be done, it just requires commitment to the work. I often think of Capricorn season's correspondence to the Winter Solstice in the northern hemisphere and the rebirth of the sun during the longest night of the year. While the focus is on the returning spark of light, it is the Capricornian energy of a supportive night that makes such brightness possible. The following spread helps us to shape the night which holds our stars to help us envision a future we want to create.

Card 1. That Which I Hope For

This card helps us connect to the vision of the future we are striving for in our life. It might be a grand vision or a much simpler next step, but this card helps us to name our hope.

Card 2. That Which Surrounds Us

This card helps us better understand our hope in our current environment. This card highlights what is supportive or not supportive to our hope.

Card 3. That Which Needs Structure

This card helps us understand a structural need in our life, whether that is creating more space for self-reflection, implementing a better time management system, or finally using a financial planning system that works for us, this card focuses on the practical needs of our hope.

Card 4. That Which Is Unexpected

This card explores the idiosyncratic energy of the goatfish and your own unique approaches and perspectives that your hope needs in order to create the future you're dreaming of.

Card 5. A Message for Capricorn Season

A general message, signs to pay attention to, and perhaps next steps to take as we move into Capricorn season. This card can highlight energy which you might bring more into your life during Capricorn season so that you are better able to connect with the energetic flow of the next month.

Bonus Card: That Which Guards the Skin & Bones

If you feel connected with the philosophy of astroherbology you can pull an additional card to help you understand the current energies of your skin, your body's largest organ, and bones, including physical experiences and energetic ones and what tension or wisdom you might be keeping there. I encourage you to take a somatic approach with this card - when you pull it and see the energy, follow the feelings and sensations that it evokes from your body to understand its meaning. 

image via @vjgalaxy

A Tea for Capricorn Season

How do we nourish the energy of Capricorn? Traditionally, Capricorn guards the skin, bones, the regulation of body systems, and the management of energy reserves (click here for a full list of traditional correspondences for Capricorn). Reading that list you may get the impression that Capricorn energy embodies a sort of tirelessness - and you would be right. There is work to be done and Capricorn energy is what helps us to do it. Many of the herbs traditionally associated with Capricorn are not the most pleasant tasting ("Pleasant tasting is not the point," I can hear some of my Capricornian readers muttering. "The point is for the tea to work."), but there are some familiar green jewels that we can rely upon to support us through Capricorn season. I like using Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis) during Capricorn season because not only is it an herb that supports overall vitality but it helps lighten the mood as Capricorn energy can be very serious. Nettles (Urtica dioica) helps to take care of the skin and bones from the inside out and aligns with the practical and forward-looking nature of Capricorn to take your (herbal) vitamins everyday to help out your future self. Finally, a helpful dose of Thyme (Thymus vulgaris) not only helps us keep Capricorn energy in perspective (there is a time for everything, including work and play), but it's a robust and restorative herb that supports our health in the long run.

• 4 parts Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis)

• 1 part Nettles (Urtica dioica)

• ½ part Thyme (Thymus vulgaris)

These proportions are only suggested guidelines, so feel free to play around with them to your liking. As you make your tea, slow down, breathe deep, and infuse the blend with your intentions for the season (or whenever you’re drinking this tea to connect with the energy of Capricorn). If you’re looking for more breathwork practices to help you connect with the energy of the season, come this way.

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Seasonal Reflections

What does the land feel like, look like, smell like this season?

What is coming to the surface from within me?

What is receding within me?

What am I feeling grateful for?

What am I grieving for or feeling challenged by?

What am I feeling inspired and where is it calling me to this season?

What am I calling to me?

What am I called to give?

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Want to learn more about the magick and astroherbalism of Capricorn? I’ve written a full profile on the sign for you to enjoy. You can also check out the rest of my seasons of astrology series.

I've written about a number of Capricorn herbs over the years including Mullein (Verbascum thapsus) and Boneset (Eupatorium perfoliatum) - both of which are essential in my winter wellness apothecary.

May your Capricorn season be the right mix of mundane and magickal, leading you ever onwards in the journey of understanding what it is that replenishes your hope.

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Gathering Ourselves Together: Plant Allies to Support Connection Without Burnout

The season of Solstice - both Winter and Summer - can be a time of increased gatherings and social outings with friends and family. Some of these get-togethers are easier to attend than others. Almost all of these gatherings draw us out of our normal everyday lives into extensively social ones with all the feelings, expectations, and (hopefully!) joy that can come with them. For those with social anxiety or neurodiversities which make social gatherings challenging, as well as empaths and highly sensitive folks, there can be an extra layer sensory and energetic input to have to contend with. Through all of the ups and downs and in-betweens of social gatherings it's important to take care of yourself and allow yourself to be cared for (Reach out for support! Ask for help!) in ways that help you connect better with those you love. 

So before you head out to gather with others, here are a few herbs that help you gather yourself together first.

All of the plants I'm discussing below can also be used as flower essences if that is what you have on hand or are inspired to create your own. Each of these herbs can be blended with the other whether as a tea or tincture, herbal bath or oil. I have chosen plants that are easy to find at local co-ops or from herbalists, easy to grow if you have the time and space, and are all considered generally safe (with the minor exception that some folks with ragweed allergies are sensitive to Chamomile). 

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Chamomile (Matricaria chamomilla)

Chamomile (Matricaria chamomilla) is a gentle ally for all ages. If you're going to be eating and drinking together with others, Chamomile can be a great either before eating or after a meal as a tea or tincture. The herb is a gentle form of digestive bitters and while lively meals in different places and times than we are used to eating can be a joy, it can sometimes be a bit of a strain on the digestive tract. Chamomile also offers emotional support as a nervine (i.e. nervous system tonic) and is particularly useful for those folks who feel stress, anxiety, and general upset in their stomach. One of the key indicators for Chamomile is someone who is quick to anger and irritation when they find themselves in uncomfortable or stressful situations - if this is you, Chamomile might be a great ally to work with. It can also be a great herb to prepare as a milky tea for little ones in your life who struggle with the unexpected nature of new places. Learn more about Chamomile and all of it's healing qualities.

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Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis)

Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis) is a magickal plant. I mean, all plants are magickal, so Lemon Balm is not particularly unique in that sense, but it is one of those plants whose magick feels incredibly relevant to our modern struggles. A few years back I was really struggling with social situations of all sorts and feeling more and more like I would be permanently on the outside looking in. Walking under the Full Moon feeling decidedly un-enchanted but casting spells in the ways that Witches do when they go walking while in great need, I felt drawn to a Lemon Balm plant growing on the side of the road in a tiny strip of garden (Goddess bless these slivers of tenaciously verdant refuges in urban spaces and those who care for them). Sitting with them, illuminated by moonlight, I found myself in the presence of a great harmonious hum. What I learned from Lemon Balm, plant of Bee Priestesses, was that there was a way to be in harmony with the collective without having to make myself into something I was not and without feeling over-run by social interactions. Were all my issues healed there on the spot as a hummed along with Lemon Balm under the Full Moon light? No, but they showed me a possibility that I didn't think possible for me, helping me remember that to harmonize takes a lot of different types of noises, lots of different types of people, but a harmony can exist between them all. 

Lemon Balm is a plant of life and joy, but it has this amazing power to help us feel in harmony with the world around us instead of constantly out of step. Perhaps this is the way the plant works on our nervous system, helping to bring about a state of homeostasis. Or maybe it is the way that Lemon Balm clears brain fog and helps us focus on what it is we want and need in our lives. What I've found over the many years of working with Lemon Balm is that they have a way of filtering out the noise so that we can connect with the hum. It can be social media noise, the noise of exhaustion and stress (it is a classic herb for postpartum for these reasons), the noise of self-doubt or whatever noise is isolating you these days. When it comes to social events and gatherings, these can be noisy events whether literally or emotionally, and Lemon Balm can be a beautiful ally to work with to help you feel connected to the situation at hand but not overwhelmed by it. I recommend taking Lemon Balm over an extended period of time for best results, but having the tea or tincture with you as you gather with others can be helpful for acute situations, too. Feeling inspired by Lemon Balm? Read more about them.

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Calendula (Calendula officinalis)

Have you ever experienced Calendula (Calendula officinalis) herbal oil? For a lot of practitioners trained in western herbalism the making of Calendula oil is a nearly ubiquitous experience in the first year of training. This was certainly true for me and it's because if a practitioner of western herbalism is likely to use an herbal oil in their practice Calendula is probably going to be at the top of the list because it comes from an abundantly available, self-seeding plant and is just so heart-blossomingly lovely to use. What I love about Calendula oil, especially if you are using it in the winter months, is that it brings some summer courage and confidence to the physical and energetic body. Taking care not just of our physical body, but our energetic ones, is necessary when we're gathering with others, especially in situations that are less than ideal. Calendula sings "I know who I am and I love it!" and helps us feel the same especially when we are met with dismissal or cruelty at our self-expression and truth-living (hello especially to my beautiful alphabet soup and trans and nonconforming queerdos whose families of origins haven't been able to see you yet). Of course, you can use Calendula in tea or tincture form, and it is wonderful in baths and as a hydrosol, but I think there is a brave sort of magick that emerges from blessing your physical form with the oil of this bright blossom before entering into the fray of social situations. If you're resonating with what I've written so far about Calendula be sure to read more about them.

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Milky Oat (Avena sativa)

I love Milky Oat (Avena sativa) and Milky Oat loves you. A powerful and nourishing nervous system tonic, Milky Oat is a beloved plant ally of mine. While you can read my whole profile on them, what I want to focus on for this post is the way that Milky Oat helps us to healing parental energies. There are a few herbs which seem to help us humans connect with a spirit of a kind and generous parent, like Motherwort (Leonurus cardiaca) and Pine (Pinus sylvestris), and I find Milky Oat to fit well into this category. When kids grow up not getting the appropriate levels of emotional security and attachment from the parental figures in their life this often leads to a dysregulation of the nervous system (and often intense burnout around the first Saturn Return, i.e. when folks are about to enter into their third decade of life). Milky Oat can help to repair the nervous system and teach it how to find homeostasis all while making space for folks to re-parent their inner child even while they are interacting with and sometimes still parenting their own parents.

They’re a great plant ally as adjunct support before and after therapy sessions as well as if you're spending any time at home during the winter or even if you're sticking away from family but the holidays bring up a lot of feelings. What I love about working with plants when it comes to our big and complicated feelings is that we don't have to worry about wearing out our welcome with them. You could spend hours in a field of Milky Oat telling them your problems and they will continue to dance and sway with gentle encouragement. But what's even more magickal about herbs and how they help us experience our feelings is that they help guide us to the people and places we need to meet in order to feel more whole and better supported. If what I've written about Milky Oat resonates with you, be sure to check out the full profile I've written and especially the section on the Milky Oat personality.

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If you're looking for more support of the divinatory persuasion, here's a spread to help clarify the dynamic of any kind of relationship and here's one to help you connect with your future self (because getting together with family can sometimes make us feel like we're stuck in the past). If creating lists and systems is the way that you cope with the added stress of the holidays, how about putting together a winter apothecary? Or a deep dive into the energetics of traditional western herbalism?

Another practice that I find essential for navigating social spaces is breathwork so I've shared my favorite simple breathwork meditation to help you ground and center. Because while we don’t always have access to plant medicine we always have access to our breath.

Wherever the season finds you, may you find lots of rest and plenty of peace.

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Restoring Joy: Lemon Balm Plant Profile

One of the first herbs to emerge in my garden in the early spring is Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis). It’s an herb that is usually introduced early in the education of a traditional western herbalist because it is not only versatile in its use, it is pleasant in its taste, and has very few contraindications. It’s a prized plant in the collection of remedies for children - gentle, effective, and a plant that little ones can learn to harvest from a young age. I’ve loved Lemon Balm a good long while for they are easy to love and love generously in return.

Along with Skullcap (Scutellaria lateriflora), I think they are a plant of our times, helping us to navigate the rapidly changing world of social engagement and technology without losing our connection to the collective soul. Lemon Balm helps us to resonate within ourselves and in the world around us, leading us back into community through our healing. And when we arrive back home, sweet Lemon Balm is there, shining our joy right back at us.

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Lemon Balm
Melissa officinalis

Folk Names:  Balm, Bee Balm, Dropsy Plant, Heart’s Delight, Melissa

Element : Water

Moon Phase: Full Moon

Zodiac Signs : Carries the energy of Cancer, Libra, and Pisces. A remedy for Aries, Leo, Virgo, and Aquarius.

Planets : Jupiter, Mercury, Venus

Tarot Cards: The Chariot (focus), The Wheel of Fortune (adaptation), 5 of Cups (to uplift the spirit), 10 of Wands (burnout). Learn more about the intersections of herbalism and the tarot.

Parts used : Aerial parts

Habitat : Native of southern Europe, but widely cultivated.

Growing conditions : Full sun to partial shade with moderate watering and well-drained soil. 

Collection : Collect leaves and flowers throughout spring and summer.

Flavor : Sour

Temperature : Cool

Moisture : Dry

Tissue State : Heat, Damp/Stagnation

Constituents : Vitamin C, calcium, magnesium, essential oils, polyphenolics, resin, flavonoids, succinic acid

Actions : Antibacterial, antidepressant, antihistamine, anti-inflammatory, antioxidant, antispasmodic, antiviral, aromatic, carminative, cholagogue, diaphoretic, digestive, emmenagogue, febrifuge, hepatic, nervine, sedative, digestive, vasodilator

Medicinal uses : Paracelsus, an alchemist and astrologer, prized Lemon Balm as a remedy that was said to be capable of restoring life. Within traditional western herbalism, Lemon Balm is most often used to lift the spirits, invigorate stagnate body systems, nourish the nervous system, and improve overall vitality. English herbalist, Thomas Bartram, notes that Lemon Balm is used “[t]o strengthen the brain in its resistance to shock and stress” as well as its effectiveness in “protect[ing] the cerebrum of the brain” and treating “autonomic disorders - an action similar to modern tranquilisers… usually combined with Peppermint.” (1) Acting on the limbic system of the brain (instinct and mood), the herb is gently sedating and useful for hyperactivity, tension, and nervousness.

In my experience, Lemon Balm has been one of the most reliable herbs when it comes to not only helping to alleviate stress but to restore joy. An extended practice of drinking Lemon Balm tea over the period of a few months can help to support our ability to heal after traumatic events but also the accumulation of stress over the years. But it is also good for times of transition which is why it is an herb that I frequently recommend in the postpartum period which can test our ability to hold joy amongst lack of sleep, changing hormones, big life adjustments, and the general stresses that life with a newborn can bring. In general, I find that Lemon Balm helps us to walk that line between the things which stress us out and bring us joy. It’s a good herb for those dealing with general social anxiety, for example, where there is a need for connection but sometimes difficulty in showing up in community spaces.

Lemon Balm helps alleviate colds and the ‘flu as well as recovery from debilitating illness. It’s a great herb for feverish children - consider combining with Elder flower and berry (Sambucus nigra), Chamomile (Matricaria recutita), and Peppermint (Mentha piperita). Alternatively, use as a bath for those children who are resistant to taking tea. The hot tea is antiviral and can be drunk internally or used externally on cases of herpes simplex lesions.

As a carminative herb, Lemon Balm is excellent in cases of spasms along the digestive tract, relieving flatulence and indigestion. As it is tied to uplifting the spirits and relieving anxiety, the herb is well used in cases of “nervous stomach” where an upset stomach is caused by tension, depression, and stress. Headaches, migraines, insomnia, and other anxiety-induced symptoms are soothed by Lemon Balm. A great herb for children, Lemon Balm can be drunk as a tea before bed to alleviate nightmares and is good for those children who are prone to anxiety about school, exams, and general performance. In cases of hyperthyroidism, Lemon Balm has shown to have hormone-regulating effects that help to rebalance thyroid function. Anne McIntyre notes that Lemon Balm is used in Carmelite water for heart complaints which combines Lemon Balm and Lemon peel with nutmeg and angelica root as “a useful remedy when nervousness, agitation or depression cause heart pains, palpitations or an irregular heartbeat.” (2)

The sour taste of Lemon Balm helps to awaken the energies of the liver, helping us to process the sluggish and slower energies of winter (or wintering/stagnant states of the body regardless of the time of year) bring the energy of spring into our bodies. Sour tastes in herbs often let us know that vitamin C and other nutrients are present and usually indicate astringent qualities to a plant helping to tonify the body system it works on.

I love taking a bath infused with the hot tea of fresh Lemon Balm leaves and flowers. The plant has an energy that is similar to a soft caress, helping us to quiet our busy minds and be guided by our own healing. I suggest Lemon Balm to many who are in the healing fields, as well as empaths and highly sensitive people, since I find that it helps to open us up as conduits of healing energy without burning out from always trying to assist others and end up overextending ourselves. The herb is grounding without being overbearing which can be especially useful with Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) who respond best to grounding energy that allows them to still float gently in their energetic currents.

Topically, Lemon Balm can be used as an oil or liniment for its antihistamine properties. It’s a great plant to add to herbal steams to clear up congestion and relaxing spasmodic coughs. Use in mouthwashes for ulcers, gum infections, and general toothache. Combine with Mullein (Verbascum thapsus) and Garlic herbal oil for ear infections.

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Magickal uses : The powers of Lemon Balm are of the ancient Bee Priestesses of Greece from which the herb gets its Latin binomial Melissa. The Melissae or “bees” were Priestesses of the Goddess Demeter, at other times said to be of Venus, and Melissa was also another name for the Moon Goddess Artemis. Bees are messengers of the Goddesss and so Lemon Balm imparts a certain quality of peaceful wisdom to those who ingest it. As an herb sacred to the Goddess and her Priestesses, it is an excellent addition to charms of loving, healthy relationships between friends, family, covenmates, and lovers. An excellent addition to baths, Lemon Balm fills the bather with amorous energy that can be applied to any number of goals.

The Lemon Balm Personality : The Lemon Balm person tends to be nervous and on edge. Panic attacks are a familiar experience and sometimes seems to be a primary way of engaging any stressful change in their life. Such constant state of worry and stress can lead to mental fatigue and burnout. Lemon Balm folks are often the helpers and givers in their relationships - they not only worry for themselves but they worry about everyone else, too. This brings about a state of spiritual restriction and emotional tension that often leads to debilitating burnout if not tended to preventatively. Lemon Balm folks need a release valve and the plant helps to reconnect the heart to the head, and deliver messages of calm when all seems topsy-turvy. One of the most healing works that Lemon Balm folks can take is finding a way back into community, learning how to be seen and held by others, adding their song to the buzz of those who love them.

Contraindications : May interfere with thyroid medications.

Dosage : Standard dosage. 1 – 30 drops 1:5 extract up to three times daily. 2 -3 teaspoons dried herb or 4 -6 grams fresh herb per 1 cup water.

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Recipes

Spring + Summer Magick Herbal Tea

A simple tea to help you transition into the magick of the warmer seasons. Cooling, calming, and heart-supporting. Blend together the following herbs:

• 2 parts Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis)

• 1 part Chamomile (Matricaria recutita)

• 1/4 part Calendula (Calendula officinalis)

This recipe can also be adapted into a tincture or herbal honey. Make into an herbal oil for a soothing topical treatment for bumps, bruises and sore muscles.

Dream Pillow

Make a dream pillow with blue fabric and the dried leaves and flowers of Lemon Balm at the Full Moon, charging it overnight under the Full Moon’s light. Place it under your pillow or bed to encourage divine dreaming and communication.

Lemon Balm Honey

Infuse raw honey with fresh Lemon Balm leaves and flowers to create a deliciously cool syrup for sore throats, fevers, and to aid recovery from illness.

I hope that you’re finding time to dwell in gardens during this season of Aries - whether it’s the unfolding season of spring in the northern hemisphere or the slow inward journey of fall in the southern hemisphere.

My Lemon Balm profile is available to download from The Plant Ally Library where you can access all of my plant profiles. If you want to learn more about Lemon Balm, they’re an ally I turn to during fire season, for community care, and they’re a wonderful friend for empaths and highly sensitive people.

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 (1) Bartram, Thomas. Bartram's Enyclopedia of Herbal Medicine. Robinson, 1998. 48.

(2) McIntyre, Anne. Flower Power: Flower Remedies for Healing Body and Soul through Herbalism, Homeopathy, Aromatherapy, and Flower Essences. Holt, 1996. 158.